Why Are Men So Emotionally Closed Off?

why are men emotionally closed off

I think it’s a social and cultural thing. To be closed off. I don’t think it’s natural. I’m as open as a book to anyone and everyone, and that to me feels more empowering than being closed off and guarded. Men have been this way since the victorian times. It’s been woven into the very…

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Women are better than men? Let’s discuss

Women are better than men

Are women better than men? Having my first brush with a hard feminist group which bases itself on the ideology that women are better than men over on Google plus led me to writing this. I mean I’m totally all for introspection and reflecting on how we are as a species, and the certain distinctions…

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So you’re going to be a Daddy?

so you're going to be a daddy

So you’re going to be a Daddy, huh? Have you passed around the cigars yet? No? Not your thing? What about the round of drinks to all of your mates in the pub? It’s something I would have done after celebrating with my wife. Alas, when Alex’s birth was announced I had stopped drinking by then, and…

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Why this one life hack will change your life forever

why this one life hack will change your life forever

There’s a strict trio of morals that I like to run my life by. And it’s something that I’ve only adopted recently, like in the past five years. But since I applied them to my life, wow. I have become happier, more motivated and I’m currently living the life that I want to. It’s something…

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Society has an unhealthy attitude towards men and sex

Do you know how many women have thought I was homosexual in the past because I wasn’t interested in immediate sex? Sounds weird, right? A guy, openly admitting that he CAN actually control his primal impulses when a boob is flashed at him now and again. There were times, I’ll admit, that I was probably too shy…

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I don’t know what it’s like to have a proper Dad

I don't know what it's like to have a proper Dad

Can’t honestly say I know what it feels like to have a proper Dad. Well, actually, I tell a lie. My Mum dated a guy years ago when I was around seven, his name was Jackie, and I had a momentary glimpse of sanity, of what having a proper father was like. I wasn’t his…

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Why are men so mean, and how to change the way they treat you

Why are men so mean

Why are men so mean, and how to change the way they treat you This is a lovely question, one of my favourites to be exact. Why? Because there’s tons of answers each intertwining with each other ducking and weaving and crossing paths. But they all fall under one overarching answer every time, and there’s no…

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4 Places where good men are, and where to find them

where good men are

4 Places where good men are, and where to find them Okay. Let’s just start by saying that you will literally find good men everywhere. If you’re getting ready to don that dating dress, or if you are already knee deep in hunkalicious men dates, then you need to start thinking ‘abundance’. Men are abundantly…

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8 Signs he’s ready to commit to a long term relationship

8 Signs he's ready to commit to a long term relationship

8 signs he’s ready to commit to a long term relationship Us men are a finicky breed. Sometimes you can understand us, sometimes you can’t. I’ll be honest and say in the past I’ve found it hard to understand my own wants, needs and desires, and if that’s me, how the hell is any partner…

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