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Everyone’s Doing It and You Should Too

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Your Sleepy Sex Life

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Communicating Love to Keep a Partnership

“You know, the most common time to get divorced is when you have little kids. It’s so all-encompassing that it’s hard to spend time with your spouse.” My...

The Top

This month’s topic is a heavy one. Sitting down to the page, I have to admit to a serious case of writer’s block. Not, in this case,...
respect

R-E-S-P-O-N-S-I-B-I-L-I-T-Y (isn’t as catchy as r-e-s-p-e-c-t)

We certainly live in interesting times, don’t we? At this point I could refer to our political climate, and you may be expecting me to, but I...
religion and relationships

Religion and Relationships

I was raised as a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of latter-Day Saints. You may have noticed that I’ll link to a verse from the...
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