Love, Sex & Relationships

    December 22, 2016

    How to better connect with her

    How to better connect with her I see a lot of how to’s on the web that are basically listicles…
    May 25, 2019

    How To Get Him To Open Up To You

    How to get him to open up to you. The right way. Sometimes us men aren’t big on communication; especially…
    May 20, 2019

    Narcissism. Everything you need to know

    Narcissism. Everything you need to know. Okay, so, let’s start off by saying that not much is known or understood…
    January 18, 2017

    Why mindset before seeking a partner is everything

    Firstly I’d like to tell you that by signing up here to my newsletter you’ll get an entire ebook free on…
    November 15, 2017

    Dating Tips for Shy Guys

    Ah, the infamous shy guy. Yeah, I was one of those once upon a time. I hated approaching women. You…
    July 2, 2019

    Anger and the Shame That Follows

    Anger and the Shame That Follows Do you feel shameful after having bouts of anger? I did. It was taught…

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      May 29, 2019

      Why Do Men Lie?

      Why do men lie, you ask? Well, consider first the thought that most people are good people. I know it’s…
      December 8, 2016

      Labels generalise and stigmatise

      Labels generalise and stigmatise Let’s just say I was a flag waver for Mental Health after a few years of…
      March 7, 2017

      Basic communication is becoming a lost art: how to relearn it

      My world today I experienced lack of communication first hand today. It wasn’t the first time, though. As my communication…
      August 11, 2019

      What Is MGTOW? A Deep Dive Into Incels and MGTOW. Exploring the MRM

      What Is MGTOW? A Deep Dive Into Incels and MGTOW. MGTOW stands for, “Men Going Their Own Way,” and Incel…
      April 1, 2017

      How to Inspire Change by Listening to People Rather than Talking to Them

      We don’t listen enough Were you aware that not many people know how to properly listen? I know because I used…
      June 28, 2019

      My Boy Likes The Colour Blue And That’s Okay

      It was early morning and Alex and I had just exited the house to head to the car. Our last…
      September 4, 2017

      I just want to be friends

      “Wary of what this married guy wanted she typed back cautiously to him, trying her hardest to sound neutral so…

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        July 20, 2019

        How To Forge Deeper Connections With People

        I have been a shit friend in the past. I’ll be honest with that one right now. It’s a wonder…
        July 4, 2016

        4 reasons thinking positively will change the way you think about everything

        4 reasons thinking positively will change the way you think about everything I remember at the beginning of my transformation. When…
        November 7, 2018

        Boosting Your Confidence for Better Relationships With Yourself And Others

        Having low confidence is quite an inhibitor to most successful things. I’ll set the scene here. I was raised by…
        April 7, 2017

        What To Say When People Accuse You of “Choosing” Addiction

        No one chooses this life for themselves I didn’t choose to be an addict. It’s not like when the teacher was…
        March 13, 2018

        Is Autism Hereditary? My thoughts and perceptions.

        I live with a family of undiagnosed Autistic people. If you were to ask me, “is Autism hereditary?” Then through…
        January 2, 2019

        Self-Acceptance and the Modern Person

        We’re not primed to accept ourselves in the modern world. Self-acceptance is the most rebellious act one can achieve in…
        July 25, 2019

        Why Having a Son (or Daughter) Will Change You on a Fundamental Level

        About fifteen years ago now, I remember visiting my friend for the first time after I moved back to Scotland…
        October 11, 2017

        Mental Health Day – Who does mental health affect?

        Charity organisations are now telling us that 1 in 4 people will experience mental health isssues in the future. So…
        March 1, 2017

        Why you’re unhappy and how to change – it all begins with mindset

        Why you’re unhappy – The pretext At the risk of talking about something controversial, I’m going to put myself out…
        June 11, 2019

        Why Being in a Relationship Won’t Cure Your Depression (Like I Once Thought)

        Why Being in a Relationship Won’t Cure Your Depression (Like I Once Thought) No-one told me that relationships, well, any…

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          Be Careful What You Say to People. Your Words Have an Impact If you’re as old as me then you’ve…
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