Why I’m voting for Labour for the first time ever

labour leader

Never voted! I’ll fess up. I’ve never voted in my life apart from when Brexit came along. Brexit was the first ever time I took to the booth, and I did that because it seemed something more important than just another General Election. Most of them have been another choice of shit which is cut from…

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Why Are Men So Emotionally Closed Off?

why are men emotionally closed off

I think it’s a social and cultural thing. To be closed off. I don’t think it’s natural. I’m as open as a book to anyone and everyone, and that to me feels more empowering than being closed off and guarded. Men have been this way since the victorian times. It’s been woven into the very…

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Why I Don’t Think Millenials Have It Easy (and I think you should stop saying so too)

millenial

Yes, we know. When the older generation were young they were lucky on days that their parents allowed the kids to sleep on a straw bed, and had rusty nails for breakfast on a good day. I’ve heard it all before; mostly when I was a late teenager and early twenty something lad. It’s pretty customary for older…

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What To Say When People Accuse You of “Choosing” Addiction

choosing addiction

No one chooses this life for themselves I didn’t choose to be an addict. It’s not like when the teacher was asking in class what everyone wanted to do when they were older, I stood up and yelled proudly, “An addict! Yay!” No-one chooses addiction. I think if we had a firm control over our lives,…

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How to Inspire Change by Listening to People Rather than Talking to Them

to inspire change

We don’t listen enough Were you aware that not many people know how to properly listen? I know because I used to be in that bracket. Listening for me had always been in the past, and exercise for me to answer what was being said to me on the surface, and not properly take in what…

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Why do men cheat? The definitive guide

why do men cheat

Why do men cheat? I have a good idea My Dad was a serial cheater. If you’re asking yourself why do men cheat right now then you’ve come to the right place. I could have darkened the same path as him in my earlier years if I hadn’t had watched myself. You see, the life I…

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Why do they still want to hang with their opposite sex single friends

friends

Why do they still want to hang with their opposite sex single friends “Especially when I told them that I’m uncomfortable with it.” This is actually a question that’s far more common than you may think. We all have friend circles, and this is the ’10’s where people have mixed gender friendships with a wide array of…

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Change Starts from Within

Change starts from within

Episode 1 – Realising that a change needs to be made Podcast: Play in new window | Download

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Episode 4 – Learn

Change starts from within

Episode 4 – Learn A large part of my rediscovery and life change was learning. I talk about how I rediscovered learning and how it could be a good and enjoyable experience!

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